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The Service Flag is an official banner authorized by the
Department of Defense for display by families who have members serving
in the Armed Forces during any period of war or hostilities the United
States may be engaged in for the duration of such hostilities.
The history of the Service Flag is as patriotic and touching as the
symbolism each star represents to the families that display them.
The service flag (also known as "blue star banners" or "son in
service flags") was designed and patented by World War I Army Captain
Robert L. Queissner of the 5th Ohio Infantry who had two sons serving on
the front line. The flag quickly became the unofficial symbol of a child
in service. President Wilson became part of its history when in 1918 he
approved a suggestion made by the Women's Committee of the Council of
National Defenses that mothers who had lost a child serving in the war
to wear a gold gilt star on the traditional black mourning arm band.
This led to the tradition to cover the blue star with a gold star on the
Service flag to indicate that the service member has died or been
killed. The color of the stars is also symbolic in that the
blue star represents hope and pride and the gold star represents
sacrifice to the cause of liberty and freedom. During World
War II, the practice of displaying the service flag became much more
widespread. In 1942, the Blue Star Mothers of America was founded as a
veteran service organization and was part of a movement to provide care
packages to military members serving overseas and also provide
assistance to families who encountered hardships as a result of their
son or husband serving during the war. Virtually every home and
organization displayed banners to indicate the number of members of the
family or organization serving in the Armed Forces, and again, covered
those blue stars with a gold star to represent each member that died.
In 1960, Congress chartered the Blue Star Mothers of America as a
veterans service organization and in 1966, the Department of Defense
revised the specifications for the design, manufacture and display of
the Service Flag. The Department of Defense specifies that family
members authorized to display the flag include the wife, husband,
mother, father, stepfather, parent through adoption, foster parents who
stand or stood in loco parentis, children, stepchildren, children
through adoption, brothers, sisters, half brothers and half sisters of a
member of the Armed Forces of the United States. The flag should be
displayed in a window of the residence of person who are members of the
immediate family. The Service Flag may also be displayed by an
organization to honor the members of that organization serving in the
Armed Forces during a period of war or hostilities.
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E.W. Miller
Mel's Grandad
WWI |
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John W. Miller
Mel's Dad
WWII Occupation Forces Japan |
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Richard M. Wolfe
Julie's Dad
WWII |
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Mel Miller
U.S. Army 1976-1996 |

Julie Miller
U.S. Army 1975-1995 |

Michael Wolfe
(Julie's Brother)
U.S. Marine Corps 1983-2004 |
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Christopher Borders
U.S. Army 1996-Present
Mel and Julie's Son-in-Law |

Kyle Mason
U.S. Army 2000-Present
Mel and Julie's Son-in-Law |
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Leadership - Words from the
Regimental Sergeant Major |
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The following quote is from the book "Kris Longknife -
Mutineer" authored by
Mike Shepherd and reproduced here
with his permission. I believe these are sound
words for any soldier, any rank, at anytime.
"The stories are true, I have not
lied to you. Now you will command people, men and
women just as scared, hurt, tired and confused as those
in the stories. The difference between just anyone
scared and tired and a soldier is you, the leader.
It will be your duty now to help them find, deep within
themselves, the courage and the will to go on, to do
what you determine must be done.
Never abuse that power. Waste that, and you waste
not just the moment, but a life, and all that life could
have held for some trooper.
When that moment they have trained and lived for comes, you hold the power
of life or death for your people. To earn that,
you must be their servant. Are their feet dry?
Is their food decent? Do they have a place to
sleep? You answer for them before you seek an
answer for yourself. You have been given authority
over them. You waste it if you use it for anything
that doesn't prepare the both of you for that critical
day when death is at your side.
You and they will live, or you and they may die.
Despite all the care that you put into your training,
chance may call the tune when the moment comes, but that
is no excuse to leave anything more to chance than the
laws of the universe demand.
Despite all you've heard in the stories, there is no
room for heroes. You do not make yourself a hero.
If you chase after glory, you waste your time and their
lives. Glory will find you on its own. If
you must spend time thinking of future glory, pray that
you and yours will be ready for its heavy burden when it
falls upon you in the heat of battle.
And lastly, remember, we tell the stories not to
entertain or bask in other's glory. We tell them
because we must. We tell them to keep faith with
the faces that haunt our nights and shadow our days.
They gave up all they might ever have had -- love,
children, sunsets--not for a ribbon but for a faith.
Not for a planet but for comrades. Not because
they were ordered to but because they chose to. If
you choose this uniform, you enter into that faith,
lived and died for by so many before you. Break
that faith and though you breathe, there will be no life
within you. " |
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