Tribute to Veterans

 

   

Four Generations of Veterans

The Service Flag is an official banner authorized by the Department of Defense for display by families who have members serving in the Armed Forces during any period of war or hostilities the United States may be engaged in for the duration of such hostilities.  The history of the Service Flag is as patriotic and touching as the symbolism each star represents to the families that display them.  The service flag (also known as "blue star banners" or "son in service flags") was designed and patented by World War I Army Captain Robert L. Queissner of the 5th Ohio Infantry who had two sons serving on the front line. The flag quickly became the unofficial symbol of a child in service. President Wilson became part of its history when in 1918 he approved a suggestion made by the Women's Committee of the Council of National Defenses that mothers who had lost a child serving in the war to wear a gold gilt star on the traditional black mourning arm band.  This led to the tradition to cover the blue star with a gold star on the Service flag to indicate that the service member has died or been killed.  The color of the stars is also symbolic in that the blue star represents hope and pride and the gold star represents sacrifice to the cause of liberty and freedom.  During World War II, the practice of displaying the service flag became much more widespread. In 1942, the Blue Star Mothers of America was founded as a veteran service organization and was part of a movement to provide care packages to military members serving overseas and also provide assistance to families who encountered hardships as a result of their son or husband serving during the war.  Virtually every home and organization displayed banners to indicate the number of members of the family or organization serving in the Armed Forces, and again, covered those blue stars with a gold star to represent each member that died.  In 1960, Congress chartered the Blue Star Mothers of America as a veterans service organization and in 1966, the Department of Defense revised the specifications for the design, manufacture and display of the Service Flag.  The Department of Defense specifies that family members authorized to display the flag include the wife, husband, mother, father, stepfather, parent through adoption, foster parents who stand or stood in loco parentis, children, stepchildren, children through adoption, brothers, sisters, half brothers and half sisters of a member of the Armed Forces of the United States. The flag should be displayed in a window of the residence of person who are members of the immediate family.  The Service Flag may also be displayed by an organization to honor the members of that organization serving in the Armed Forces during a period of war or hostilities.

 

 

 

   
E.W. Miller
Mel's Grandad
WWI
   
   
John W. Miller
Mel's Dad
WWII Occupation Forces Japan
 
Richard M. Wolfe
Julie's Dad
WWII
   
   
Mel Miller
U.S. Army 1976-1996

Julie Miller
U.S. Army 1975-1995

Michael Wolfe
(Julie's Brother)
U.S. Marine Corps 1983-2004
   
   
Christopher Borders
U.S. Army 1996-Present
Mel and Julie's Son-in-Law

Kyle Mason
U.S. Army 2000-Present
Mel and Julie's Son-in-Law
     
   

Leadership - Words from the Regimental Sergeant Major

   
    The following quote is from the book "Kris Longknife - Mutineer" authored by Mike Shepherd and reproduced here with his permission.  I believe these are sound words for any soldier, any rank, at anytime.

"The stories are true, I have not lied to you.  Now you will command people, men and women just as scared, hurt, tired and confused as those in the stories.  The difference between just anyone scared and tired and a soldier is you, the leader.  It will be your duty now to help them find, deep within themselves, the courage and the will to go on, to do what you determine must be done. 
Never abuse that power.  Waste that, and you waste not just the moment, but a life, and all that life could have held for some trooper.
 When that moment they have trained and lived for comes, you hold the power of life or death for your people.  To earn that, you must be their servant.  Are their feet dry?  Is their food decent?  Do they have a place to sleep?  You answer for them before you seek an answer for yourself.  You have been given authority over them.  You waste it if you use it for anything that doesn't prepare the both of you for that critical day when death is at your side. 
You and they will live, or you and they may die.  Despite all the care that you put into your training, chance may call the tune when the moment comes, but that is no excuse to leave anything more to chance than the laws of the universe demand. 
Despite all you've heard in the stories, there is no room for heroes.  You do not make yourself a hero.  If you chase after glory, you waste your time and their lives.  Glory will find you on its own.  If you must spend time thinking of future glory, pray that you and yours will be ready for its heavy burden when it falls upon you in the heat of battle. 
And lastly, remember, we tell the stories not to entertain or bask in other's glory.  We tell them because we must.  We tell them to keep faith with the faces that haunt our nights and shadow our days.  They gave up all they might ever have had -- love, children, sunsets--not for a ribbon but for a faith.  Not for a planet but for comrades.  Not because they were ordered to but because they chose to.  If you choose this uniform, you enter into that faith, lived and died for by so many before you.  Break that faith and though you breathe, there will be no life within you. "